Much of my childhood was spent in a van, especially the 1968 Chevy that my parents drove across California, Nevada and Arizona.
I remember feeling trapped and bored on those trips, spending countless hours staring at the globe compass on the dashboard and willing its dial to stop wobbling. Because if the compass was still, that meant the van had stopped and I could finally go outside again.
But all that time we spent crammed together in that van also created some of my favorite memories with my family. Like when my sister and I put on shows for the other cars on the highway.
That was cool.
Since this was the 1970s when we couldn’t carry interactive screens everywhere, my sister and I entertained ourselves by reading, drawing or playing with toys in the van. Until my father caught us and exclaimed, “Look out the window! Who knows if you’ll ever be driving by here again.”
So I looked out at the landscape, but not for long. Soon I was watching the other cars, and when I saw the other bored people inside them, I decided to entertain us all.
I went to the back windows and opened my case, and my sister joined me. First we showed them all our toys, including what we made with our Legos. Then if the car was still behind us and the people seemed to be enjoying our show, we wrote out greetings on pieces of paper. And if I was sure my mother wasn’t watching, I’d put pairs of underwear on my head to make them laugh.
I love imagining what these people thought, watching these girls waving at them from the back windows of their van, especially the one with the panties on her wild blond hair.
But my absolute favorite memories of that van were the times I got to crawl on top of it, into the wooden box my father built on its roof for extra storage space when relatives visited from Denmark. The box ran the length of the van and was several inches in height, so it could easily fit our whole family, let alone kid-sized me.
I was constantly begging my mother to let me ride in the box, but she said it was too dangerous unless the van was parked. Except for one trip to Yosemite, when she finally relented and said when my father was driving slowly inside the park near a famous redwood grove, I could ride up top.
I still remember how it felt to be lying there, looking up at the sky full of redwood trees and thinking I had the best dad in the world, who was always building cool things and letting us do fun things.
Even when we weren’t on road trips, he made the van our playground. He’d drive off with the sliding door open, forcing us to chase after it and jump in if we didn’t want to be left behind. Once inside, he let us lie on our bellies above the holes in the floor so we could watch the road fly by underneath. Even though I saw mostly just a blur of asphalt, I found it fascinating, and never considered that I could easily lose an eye if a big enough rock came flying up to hit it.
Because I always felt safe in that van, even when we were driving in the middle of the night and I woke up in my sleeping bag. In those moments surrounded by darkness, with no idea where I was and no control over where I was going, it felt like floating in outer space. And yet I also felt completely safe, sure that my parents knew where we were headed.
So I would look out the windows and watch the trees and poles flying overhead until I fell back asleep, not caring where we were going, just happy that my family was going there together.
And now, decades later, my favorite vacations are in cars, especially the long road trips my husband and I take with the dog. Just me and my family on the road, creating new favorite memories.
(Ukiah Daily Journal)
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