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Folks Mingle Easy In These Parts

We were standing in the lobby waiting in the popcorn line, and we noticed a smartly dressed black teenager in front of us.

She wore familiar teen couture: distressed jeans so tight she’ll need a spatula to get them off, and a t-shirt featuring a rock band that hasn’t recorded, or maybe even been alive, since she was born.

From our left came another teenager, this one blonde and wearing the same uniform. She hurried to her friend: “Oh my God!” she laughed. “Oh My…” as she fumbled with her smart phone. She draped her right arm around her black pal’s shoulders and, heads together, they started laughing at the pictures.

It was some other teen, a boy, who was either Way Kewl or totally inept, and they just kept laughing and scrolling and gasping for air. Me, I’ve never had such fun in a popcorn line.

Wife Trophy said, softly, “Not something you’d see in Ukiah.”

“Or Oakland,” I said. “Or LA.”

It was just two kids sharing laughs, but the fact they were black and white illustrates something I’ve noticed repeatedly since we arrived in North Carolina: People mingle easy down here.

I’ve never lived anywhere that wasn’t essentially and de facto segregated. Cleveland was split right down the middle: the east side was black and the west side and most suburbs were white.

Ukiah had a sizable black population the Reverend Jim Jones brought to town and then dragged from town in the 1970s.

My older brother has lived in South Carolina half a century; he tells me there is no such thing as a small city, big city or any city in between that is not integrated in the Carolinas.

So in the smallish town where Trophy and I have landed there are teenage girls of different races hugging and laughing. I dig it.

Interracial couples are so common around here they don’t draw a glance. My neighborhood in the Historic District is sprinkled with minorities: across the street live two black women, down the street are Mexican-American families with lots of children and 75 or so guests celebrating a catered Quincienera in the front yard last weekend. Jolly good music, dancing in the street.

In a nicer neighborhood than ours a few blocks west some of the most imposing and expensive old houses have multiple stories, swimming pools, circular driveways and black families.

And the neighbors just get along, in part because they’ve grown up together and have all gone to the same schools, and in part because their parents and their children have grown up together and have all gone to the same schools. It’s relaxed, cheerful and chatty.

The corner grocery store has mostly black employees and customers. Fun lines. Old black ladies inspect your tomatillos and papayas at the checkout line and ask “Now what y’all gonna do with those things there?” The banter begins.

So no one is surprised (except me a little bit) when a pair of cute teenage girls (besties maybe) jostle one another like puppies in the lobby of the downtown movie theater.

Dick’s Bar Lives On

Last week’s report that Dick’s Bar was closing turns out to be an exaggeration. My mistake.

Instead it is being sold, and presumably will remain the only interesting place to visit in the marvelous village of Mendocino. Let’s drink to that.

Waste Fraud Abuse Forever!

Protests across the land broke out a couple weeks back because everyone on the left fears government will shrink, federal employees will be laid off and taxes could even be reduced. The sky could also fall.

The reason our dim but lovable progressives believe these sorts of paranoid fantasies is that they get news from Democratic operatives employed at MSNBC, ABC, the San Francisco Chronicle and the other usual sources.

These newsfronts tell us Social Security is finished, guide dogs for the blind are no more and veterans will soon be left at freeway off ramps to rely on the kindness of passing motorists.

These are the same phony sources that lied to us about Trump and Russia-gate, lied to us about Hunter’s laptop, lied about cocaine in the White House, lied from start to finish about the enfeebled patient in the Oval office, and a hundred other lies. The New York Times is currently working on a three-part Stormy Daniels update.

But yeah, go ahead and believe Elon Musk is stupid, Trump is Hitler, and that trimming bloated federal agencies is a threat to “Our Democracy.”

One Comment

  1. Fascism For Fun and Profit! April 29, 2025

    Zionists lie about everything.

    Spend an afternoon in the parks and cafes of Oakland. Go eat some of the fantastic food that can be found on International Blvd. You’ll see every combination of race and ethnicity together. Unless of course you wear blinders that prevent you from seeing anything good in a place run by corrupt progressives instead of corrupt conservatives. Of course, if you only hang out in Rockridge or Piedmont, it might be another story What the mendacious Mr. Kramer is probably noticing is the higher percentage of Black people who are middle class in places like Raleigh and Atlanta, which exists because of the larger overall Black population in general, and because of the greater political power wielded by Black people there, most of whom are – gasp! – Democrats.

    Dick’s isn’t closing (yet anyway). Last time I was there I saw two interracial couples, one of which was me and my wife. The DJs were playing a great reggae, dancehall, and hip-hop mix, and people of every type were dancing.

    Fortune, which is hardly a liberal rag, estimates that DOGE will cost the US taxpayer more than if it had done nothing. https://fortune.com/article/doge-mass-federal-workforce-cuts-taxpayers-billions/

    Fraud and abuse? Where are the prosecutions, then? Anyone with a couple of brain cells left could have figured out that DOGE was a hype machine for the stupid when it claimed that 140-year olds, in a database with over 300million entries, were somehow still getting a check when Social Security only sends checks to just over 70million people. And then there was “millions for condoms for Hamas!” which turned out to be another blatant lie. Is there fraud and abuse? Of course there is, mostly in the Defense Department which fights Israel’s wars and in the agencies which give Musk’s companies their corporate welfare.

    Oh yeah, Trump has already outspent Biden by $150billion over the same time period. So much for DOGE’s supposed “$135billion in savings.” Trump has also deported fewer people than Biden over the same period, supposedly the thing that his troglodyte cultists voted for.

    In the classic argument between an anarchist and a statist, the statist asks “what about the roads!?” We are all left to ask, “what about the park rangers?” These are services that we want and have paid for. What DOGE is really about are the same old Neoliberal mantras – austerity, do more with less, get an additional job, take on more debt, and pay your tribute to the billionaires.

    Get ready for empty shelves and yet another war for Israel, this time against Iran. Austerity? You ain’t see nothing yet.

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